Tuesday, January 5, 2016
HAPPY NEW YEAR!!
Happy New Year!!
This is my first holiday without Mini Ginger. We have temporarily come to a custody agreement until Mini Ginger starts pre-k in the fall. We are rotating every two weeks between us. Dividing the time as fairly as possible, along with juggling the miles between us.
Many things that happened in 2015 have not been very fair for me. The scorned woman in me wants to say fuck all this fairness business, but deep down I know that is not the right example for my son. We have a minimum of fifteen years to co-parent together. Personally, I do not like unnecessary strife and stress in my life. Acting the proverbial scorned ex-wife would do nothing but create exactly that, strife and stress.
That scene from Waiting to Exhale where she burns all his shit and his car too.
If only that scene would fly out here in the real world!
Mini Ginger deserves the best of what we can give him as parents from this point on. All that nonsense is not conducive of a positive environment between his parents. Fifteen years is a long time for a kid to live in a rotten situation.